The Original State


A girl was once asked, What do you want?  And she answered “Love and Peace”

Then a follow-up question, “What takes away your Peace of Mind?” She mentioned 5.

1. When the people around me are unhappy.

2. When things start falling out of place. 

3. When I don’t feel God. I feel spiritually thirsty.

4. Feelings of doubt.

5. Stress.


There are three most important experiences behind every human soul. Love, Happiness, and Peace

And when we are deprived of these three we feel empty, exhausted, lost. Like we’re going on circles not knowing what to do and where to go. In this state we feel like the world is closing in around us and there’s nothing we can do. This is where family and friends come in to shed some light.  But since we’re covered in darkness, we most of the time close our world to them too. What we do not realize is,

“We do not lose PEACE, LOVE, and HAPPINESS because of the circumstances but because of the struggles we create in our mind between what we think should be and what reality is.”

Our thoughts play a major role in what has become of us. The mind is a powerful machine that has the capacity to destroy if not grow and nourish the soul. We feed our mind with thoughts of resentment, blame, guilt, other’s expectations, worries, things we cannot change, and the list goes on. BUT, we can also feed our mind with thoughts of love, peace, and happiness. IT’S OUR CHOICE! Isn’t it? We are the sole controllers of our mind. It’s not the people around us, it’s not the situations that we face, IT’S JUST US. If we really love ourselves, why would we think of negative thoughts. If we think of negative thoughts it simply means we do not value ourselves because we keep holding onto garbage. We need to discern. If I want PEACE, I need to plant seeds of peace…RIGHT NOW. It has been said that in thinking positively “You focus on the solutions not the problem.” Thinking about the problem is only a waste of thought. It eats up your energy while you go around about the problem. We have the power to create our own thoughts in accordance to what is true within us.

So what is our Original State? Each one of us is originally filled with Love, Peace, and Happiness. When we’re lost , we need to find ourselves for us to be able to go back to our original state.That’s our default. 

A positive thinker lives in the present. Yes. We learn lessons from the past, we live in the present, and gear up and go for our future. 


I am currently in the process of going back to my original state. 

We can only be wounded by the one we love the most.

Yes that’s true. 




Couple UP!

Hello bloggers and readers! I just couldn’t pass on without posting this one.


I attended ”The Feast- Pasig” yesterday. It’s a Catholic Prayer gathering held every Sunday in different venues around the world (as far as I know they have Feast builders in the US and in Europe). It starts with the Holy Mass followed by a Talk and then worship. It’s like spending 2-3 hours worshiping and listening to God’s word. I tell you, it’s “the happiest place to be”. 😀

Right before you enter the venue Ushers would hand out “Feast Bulletins”. As I went through the pages I couldn’t help but notice a section for “Couples”. (I’m married now so my eyes now easily looks for the Couples section. I used to stay at the Singles section of that bulletin before. Haha! )

This particular section for this weekend enumerated of “The Ten Laws of Marriage”.



#3 struck me first. This is usually what’s missing among couples.

I firmly agree that couples need to spend “quality time” with each other. But you need not be with each other ALL-THE-TIME (like you cannot eat-sleep-breathe without the other). Remember you both have separate lives before you met. You need to stick with your individuality still, even when you’re already inside the relationship.

Having a “significant other” in your life is not your sole relationship. It’s simply an addition to your existing relationships. What existing relationships am I pertaining to? It’s your relationship with your friends, family, community and the list goes on. Those are relationships you’ve built through time. And the presence of your significant other in your life is another relationship built and to be nurtured with love through time. That’s the reason why we introduce our significant other to our family and friends. It makes our relationships grow! 🙂

Conversations are healthy. And I mean conversations that do not only compose of “sweet-nothings” and “mushy acts and ideas” but rather those with sense and content. And to strike a good conversation with your partner you need to allow yourselves some time without the other. A good “ME time” will do. Or you spend time with friends, siblings, have coffee, shop, drink, socialize. Allow your partner the same. Why? So while you’re out with each other’s friends/siblings, the time apart would give you reasons to miss the other more. And the moment you see each other again (at night when you get back home) both of you will be filled with stories to talk about. It’s like catching up on an old friend even when you were just apart for a couple of hours.

Try it! 🙂


I’ll blog about the other numbers tomorrow. I choose 4, 5, 6, 8, 9, & 10. 

How about you? What number/s particularly strike you the most?

Talk about it here! Share your thoughts. 😉




Red rose

Surprises, and sweet what-nots

Fill me with so much gaiety

Mix it with creativity

To add variety

Unique things I see

Bring color to days gloomy.


Blanks, Empty spaces, Vacuous thoughts

Like a black void of space was brought

Isn’t it too early for this?

We’re just starting, aren’t we?

What happened?

Where will this lead?

I’m afraid, scared.

What’s next?Wilted rose



I highly recommend reading this story.

It’s Touching, Inspiring, Moving.

It makes you want to look back on past love,

Assess the present love,

And look forward to love

That could withstand the tests of time.

I believe that’s how LOVE should be.,


So this V-month,

Be touched, inspired, and moved. Love Life.


Sharing a part of a book I’m reading, I came across this gem when I went to a bookstore Warehouse Sale. Believing it’s just some book only a few would take a chance on buying because it was cheaply priced at P50 compared to other books on sale. I never thought that I’d find words to live by and thoughts of the author/s that made me say “I could not agree more”.

This particular excerpt struck me the most (though I haven’t finished the book yet) 😉 I hope you too could relate to it.

Real love- whether romantic love, close friendship, or a family relationship-happens long after (love) at first sight. It shows up as people get to know each other more deeply and often they work through tough things together. Real love in relationships isn’t a magic act- it’s a journey.

When people say, “It was love at first sight.” what they really mean is “I was attracted to that person the first time I saw them.” There is nothing wrong with being infatuated with someone at the start of a relationship. The real question, however, is, do you have a love that is growing stronger and deeper everyday?

I don’t believe in Love at first sight; I believe in Love at LAST sight. Each of our relationships has to have the potential to be better the next time we’re together than it was the previous time so that the last time we see each other we’re closer than ever before.

To know more you can visit their site



haze’ 30-day challenge “DONT BE LATE”

Life seems a bit ho-hum these past few months. This morning I decided to give myself a challenge every month, just to get me back on track. Hopefully after every 30-day challenge I’ll get used to the discipline that the challenge taught me. So for this month I decided to challenge myself to take on something that I’ve been battling with for so long…BEING LATE.


This is my challenge for December 2012.

How about you? Do you have “late problems” too? Are you up for this challenge? Join me as I log in here the date and time as I come in for work starting on Monday (December 3) and count the days that I’ll be successful with not being late.

(credits to for the image)