I’m reminding my soul there is restoration, confirmation and strength coming my way … if I don’t give up.

“And after you have suffered a little while, the God of all grace, who has called you to his eternal glory in Christ, will himself restore, confirm, strengthen, and establish you.” 1 Peter 5:10 (ESV)

Help me finish well what you have called me to do in this life Oh Lord. I’m pressing on. I believe this is all in preparation for eternity.

John 15:7, “If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you.” (NIV)

Acts 20:24, ”However, I consider my life worth nothing to me; my only aim is to finish the race and complete the task the Lord Jesus has given me — the task of testifying to the good news of God’s grace.“ (NIV)

I am pressing on.

Questioning

Unblocked? Unlocked?

Possible, why not?

If not,

Technical glitch?

Thoughts in switch

Fate at play?

Should i be dismayed?

These questions

Came as an opportune

For a heart check

Not a heart break

Have i really

Made a choice freely?

Entering discernment

Thoughts need enlightenment.

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You have always been…MY GOD.

You have always been

That voice calling out to me,

The hand that reaches out to me when I’m lost.

The one who was always patiently waiting for me,

The one who picks me up when I fall,

The one who saves me before I destroy myself.

 

You have always been

The ear who listens to my expressions of joy

And my cries of pain,

The one who never gets tired of my childish stories

And my child-like complains.

The one who glues my broken pieces together,

Then holds my heart and soothes it with care.

 

You have always been

My strength in times of weakness

The reason why I face the world in confidence.

You have always

Given me more than what I need

Given me something better when I falter.

 

You have always been

My source of peace

My steady fortress

The one who stays

The one who believes

In what I am and what I can be.

 

You have always

Dreamed greater dreams for me than I have for myself

The light in my darkest days

The one who’s BRIGHTER THAN SUNSHINE

The reason why I choose to be a better person.

 

You are the reason for my everything.

You are my Father, my Friend, my Saviour,

My Love, my Peace, my Happiness,

YOU ARE MY GOD.

 

 

               

                -14July2014-

Our 2014 forecast (Me & Joon)

2014 Forecasts

Pig Overview
This year is definitely an improvement over last, thanks to the fixed element of Wood. In fact, there are actually nine favorable months for you. So let yourself have fun and enjoy any excitement that comes your way. But on the flipside, remember to use the reins during the Year of the Horse so things don’t wander off-track or get out of control. Learn to be aware of your emotions. Don’t jump into the fray simply because other people are doing it. Don’t take unnecessary risks. Meditate more than usual. With these tools by your side, you can keep it together and come out ahead.
Pig Career
You’re down-to-earth, agreeable and hard-working. This year, you can reach unexpected pinnacles of fortune and success, so start having bigger dreams. Allow yourself to acknowledge your true desires when it comes to your career. Stop settling for the average. Also, it’s time to learn how to stand up for yourself once and for all. Don’t let other folks steal your thunder or get credit for your ideas and efforts. Claim your power, whether it’s in the boardroom or the classroom. Big, dramatic moves won’t work for you this year, but slow and steady progress will. You’re really in the process of building the foundation for something great, and that means being able to have the career and life of your dreams. There is still work to be done, but you’ll have the energy and stamina to get off to a good start this year.
Pig Relationships
It’s time to breathe a big sigh of relief and lower your dukes. Any conflict you experienced in your love life should be at an end. While things may not be perfect, you’re in a much better place. Whether you’re single or attached, now is the time to remember that fun and laughter really are the spice of life. Favor action over analysis, movement over stagnation and intuition over logic. And remind yourself that you don’t have to be in control of everything. Being a little more outgoing and spending more time playing helps you feel relaxed and approachable. And don’t be afraid to fly solo, whether that means spending time away from your sweetie or embracing the single life. You’re on a good path where romance is concerned.
Pig Health
Pick yourself up and dust yourself off from last year. Right now is a time of cleansing, recalibrating your energy and refining your health habits until they’re squeaky-clean. No one is asking you to be perfect, but make a concerted effort to do better. Hire a personal trainer. Join a dance class. Get back into that childhood sport you loved so much. This year is all about physical movement, so stay active, but don’t overdo it. Take the proper precautions. If you see that your diet is healthy and you get enough sleep, you should get through this year with flying colors.
Pig Wealth
This year you manage to capture that elusive feeling known as ‘financial security.’ You’re incredibly good at working quietly in the background, slowly building a nest egg or a company. The trick is to cash in when the time is right. Chances are good this can happen for you if you develop your sense of timing. In other words, take calculated risks and move on worthwhile opportunities. Map out a plan to buy that new home, car or business. It’s really possible. The Year of the Horse invites you to push beyond the boundaries of what you thought was possible, so think better and act bigger. And along the way, be smart about your money. You’re already good at that.
Rat Overview
This year, the secret to coming out on top is to keep a cool head and make the most of what you are given. Rats are independent and like to do things their way, are unafraid of risk and think of the world as their playground. Usually, that attitude gets you what you want. The Year of the Horse asks you to be more flexible and adapt your style to changing circumstances. Challenging everyone and everything in your path is not a good idea, but going with the flow is. Taking it easy will also help. Game-changing ventures, big plans: let these ideas sit and come to fruition before you start taking action. Slow and steady is the name of the game. Yes, this feels different to your usual method of operation, and it might feel uncomfortable at first, but you’ll like the results.
Rat Career
Uh-oh. You’re having one of those moments where work seems boring. ‘It’s time for a change!’ you think. But then doubts start to arise: are you making a rash decision? Pay attention to these types of questions this year, because you’re going to have the urge to switch things up one minute, only to change your mind the next. Quitting your job at the law firm and starting an organic vegetable farm in the middle of nowhere seem really appealing — or is it that you want to go to medical school instead? This is the year to take a few well-calculated risks rather than acting on impulse. Stay in the planning phase and think about long-term strategy. The good news is that your ideas will almost certainly be brilliant. Take notes, keep good records and stay on track.
Rat Relationships
This year emphasizes change and the thrill of the chase, but you tend to do better in solid partnerships. That means there may be moments when you really aren’t sure what you want. Are you meant to be single and live it up? Or should you stay put and make things work with your sweetheart? If you can find a sense of balance, you may just find the perfect balance in love. But if you’re really ready for change, this year’s energy might give you the gusto to make it happen. Just make sure your choice is based on something real, not a whim. Sleep on it for a few months. If you’re single, you might meet someone who prizes his or her independence as much as you do. The challenge here is figuring out how to become a couple without losing your sense of self.
Rat Health
‘Burning the midnight oil’ is a phrase that will become familiar this year. You’re up, out, about and all over the place. And while this might be a good strategy for your career, it’s not the best plan for your health. Fortunately, with some careful planning and awareness, exhaustion is avoidable. Remember to slow down, breathe and schedule in time for self-care. That way you can avoid respiratory problems, achy joints or injuries that might otherwise occur. Go easy in that Pilates class. Drink more water. Eat clean, healthy foods. It sounds simple, but small tweaks to your daily behavior will go a long way. You’ll really have to find the balance between work, play and rest. If you start a diet or a health regimen, stick with it. You’ll reap the benefits if you see it through for a significant amount of time.
Rat Wealth
Staying on task is what’s important when it comes to your net worth. You can also learn to detach from what your bank statement says. Do numbers really dictate who you are as a person? Let go of the money-ego thing and learn to live in the moment. Money can’t buy happiness, so be sure to take that lesson to heart. When you’re presented with the opportunity to take a risk this year (and you will be), just make sure you know what’s involved. The outcome can’t be predicted, but having a backup plan is an element you can control. An overall good strategy this year? Save as much as you spend — or more.

The Original State

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A girl was once asked, What do you want?  And she answered “Love and Peace”

Then a follow-up question, “What takes away your Peace of Mind?” She mentioned 5.

1. When the people around me are unhappy.

2. When things start falling out of place. 

3. When I don’t feel God. I feel spiritually thirsty.

4. Feelings of doubt.

5. Stress.

 

There are three most important experiences behind every human soul. Love, Happiness, and Peace

And when we are deprived of these three we feel empty, exhausted, lost. Like we’re going on circles not knowing what to do and where to go. In this state we feel like the world is closing in around us and there’s nothing we can do. This is where family and friends come in to shed some light.  But since we’re covered in darkness, we most of the time close our world to them too. What we do not realize is,

“We do not lose PEACE, LOVE, and HAPPINESS because of the circumstances but because of the struggles we create in our mind between what we think should be and what reality is.”

Our thoughts play a major role in what has become of us. The mind is a powerful machine that has the capacity to destroy if not grow and nourish the soul. We feed our mind with thoughts of resentment, blame, guilt, other’s expectations, worries, things we cannot change, and the list goes on. BUT, we can also feed our mind with thoughts of love, peace, and happiness. IT’S OUR CHOICE! Isn’t it? We are the sole controllers of our mind. It’s not the people around us, it’s not the situations that we face, IT’S JUST US. If we really love ourselves, why would we think of negative thoughts. If we think of negative thoughts it simply means we do not value ourselves because we keep holding onto garbage. We need to discern. If I want PEACE, I need to plant seeds of peace…RIGHT NOW. It has been said that in thinking positively “You focus on the solutions not the problem.” Thinking about the problem is only a waste of thought. It eats up your energy while you go around about the problem. We have the power to create our own thoughts in accordance to what is true within us.

So what is our Original State? Each one of us is originally filled with Love, Peace, and Happiness. When we’re lost , we need to find ourselves for us to be able to go back to our original state.That’s our default. 

A positive thinker lives in the present. Yes. We learn lessons from the past, we live in the present, and gear up and go for our future. 

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I am currently in the process of going back to my original state. 

We can only be wounded by the one we love the most.

Yes that’s true. 

 

 

Couple UP!

Hello bloggers and readers! I just couldn’t pass on without posting this one.

 

I attended ”The Feast- Pasig” yesterday. It’s a Catholic Prayer gathering held every Sunday in different venues around the world (as far as I know they have Feast builders in the US and in Europe). It starts with the Holy Mass followed by a Talk and then worship. It’s like spending 2-3 hours worshiping and listening to God’s word. I tell you, it’s “the happiest place to be”. 😀

Right before you enter the venue Ushers would hand out “Feast Bulletins”. As I went through the pages I couldn’t help but notice a section for “Couples”. (I’m married now so my eyes now easily looks for the Couples section. I used to stay at the Singles section of that bulletin before. Haha! )

This particular section for this weekend enumerated of “The Ten Laws of Marriage”.

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#3 struck me first. This is usually what’s missing among couples.

I firmly agree that couples need to spend “quality time” with each other. But you need not be with each other ALL-THE-TIME (like you cannot eat-sleep-breathe without the other). Remember you both have separate lives before you met. You need to stick with your individuality still, even when you’re already inside the relationship.

Having a “significant other” in your life is not your sole relationship. It’s simply an addition to your existing relationships. What existing relationships am I pertaining to? It’s your relationship with your friends, family, community and the list goes on. Those are relationships you’ve built through time. And the presence of your significant other in your life is another relationship built and to be nurtured with love through time. That’s the reason why we introduce our significant other to our family and friends. It makes our relationships grow! 🙂

Conversations are healthy. And I mean conversations that do not only compose of “sweet-nothings” and “mushy acts and ideas” but rather those with sense and content. And to strike a good conversation with your partner you need to allow yourselves some time without the other. A good “ME time” will do. Or you spend time with friends, siblings, have coffee, shop, drink, socialize. Allow your partner the same. Why? So while you’re out with each other’s friends/siblings, the time apart would give you reasons to miss the other more. And the moment you see each other again (at night when you get back home) both of you will be filled with stories to talk about. It’s like catching up on an old friend even when you were just apart for a couple of hours.

Try it! 🙂

 

I’ll blog about the other numbers tomorrow. I choose 4, 5, 6, 8, 9, & 10. 

How about you? What number/s particularly strike you the most?

Talk about it here! Share your thoughts. 😉